If I'm complaining about whiners, does that make me one too?

I don't know what it is but it seems that WHINERS are following me around. That and people that don't listen. And I know, people say that it is the person that attracts these people to you. I do agree with this statement!

Like girls that are loser-magnets. There is a reason that they hang out with losers. I know someone who IS a loser-magnet. She let's guys treat her like crap. And I'm not just saying that. When someone confesses that they have cheated on you and you say you don't want to break up, or take time apart, but act like it never happened... they are going to hurt you again. And he did, he dumped her a few weeks later. Over two years in a relationship and he dumped her for the girl he cheated on her with. And that's not the only incident. When a boy says he WON'T be your boyfriend and he wants to be able to date other girls but wants to continue the sexual relationship he has with you and you ACCEPT that! You let men treat you like CRAP! If he don't want to buy the cow, you stop supplying the milk for free.

And I'm not saying that I've never dated losers. I have! Well, it was one loser. But, I got smarter! And for the record, you have to buy this cow if you want some milk!

However, I feel that I am an exception to the rule. I know I'm an exception to the rule. There is a woman that is always coming up to me and whining! I'm not a fan of her to begin with, and I never initiate a conversation with her. If she says hello to me I do say hi back. I'm not a bitch. And I'm not a bitch because I am not a fan of her either. I think she keeps whining to me because she wants sympathy. And not just from me, from anyone. There is one person that will listen to her whining, however if that person is not there, she will seek people out. I'm not the only one that she whines to.

I'm also tired of hearing people whining about money! If you have a car, a place to live, a job with a good paycheck, you shouldn't be whining about money! I HATE hearing my parents argue about money! And of course, who would be the only other person that whines about money! My dearest sibling! "I'm poor! I can't afford anything!" Hey, Addict!!! Stop spending your money on drugs and you won't have cash flow problems!

The sibling also whines about other people. Well, is it whining is you point out other's faults and how bad off you think they are? And yes, it is the concrete truth because they said so! Well, I guess that's not whining. But they constantly put down people. And they aren't constructive comments. It's comments like "Oh! Blah-blah-blah! They are fucked! They are just screwed! There is NO hope for them!" And also "Oh! Blah-blah-blah! I saw them a few years ago, they are gay!" Okay, did they see this person kiss someone of the same-sex? "No." We're they with someone of the same sex and they introduced them as their significant other? "No!" We're they with someone of the opposite sex and they introduced them as their significant other? "Yes, but!" YES, BUT WHAT!?!?!? Where is your proof?!?! That's right, you don't have any!

I guess it's hearing people being SO negative that bothers me! I don't need to hear all that crap! Whining about your problems, whether it be personal or financial, keep it to yourself! Between your significant other (if they are monetarily linked to you). Or your therapist. And I'm not saying that if you discuss problems with me you are whining. There is a total difference!!!! My good friends telling me things that are bothering them... NOT whining! Semi-complete stranger people, who randomly tell me things about them... WHINING!

And yes, I'm guilty of whining! I'm sure I have at one point or another! But my aim is to be positive. I guess I'm being a bit negative right now. But I am allowed to be annoyed aren't I? I mean I am human. I am a work in progress. We all are. I guess, it just was too much this week. Well, it's been building up over several weeks. Especially that woman. She starts every conversation off with... "I feel SO guilty." And it's about the SAME thing, ALL THE TIME!!! When I ask someone how they are doing when they say hi to me, I don't want a song and a dance. Keep it light, just like I did with you. "Hey! I'm good, thanks!"

Okay, whatever. I thought it may have been an anger source. It's not. It's just me being human, as well as everyone else. Doesn't mean that I have to like it though. That's all I have to say about that!

In a while, crocodile!