August 26, 2008

Communication is a MUST!!!

Well, update from the angrygirl camp. We're back together. Sigh, I know, EVERYONE said that we weren't broken up. It took 9 days for us to talk. And it took so long to talk to each other because I was the one that hung up on him and therefore I needed to call him.

So we talked. And the reason for the argument. Well there was two. Lack of communication and technology. So, we all know I'm a fan of rules so, here they are. Some rules for relationships

Relationship Rule #1: Do not communicate via text message. CALL the person instead!!!

Especially since text messages, like e-mail, you cannot tell the tone, mood or expression. For example. How was your day? Reply: It was good. Well, that person could be overly sarcastic; it was GOOD (insert eye roll). Or they could be indifferent, or it actually could have been a good day. When you send someone a text that says "I'm tired," no where in there is there an expression of extreme pain. Instead, CALL the person!!!

Relationship Rule #2: Don't Assume, as it makes an ASS out of U and ME!

As we can all recall, his feet were hurting. Well, I thought it was a crap excuse because he had had the shoes for two months and I had never heard that they hurt his feet. So, when someone who asks you everyday "how are you feeling?" means that the person gives a crap about your health and general well being. Don't assume because I tell you to take a tylenol and I'll see you in an hour means that I don't care. Especially, since I was rocking a broken toe. It means, life goes on, keep going!

Anyways, that's my update for today. I'm gonna go walk my dog.

Woof, woof!